I was just working on my book Heaven Calling and thought I would share exactly how I am feeling at the moment.
The book highlights ways through my knowledge as a Major Investigations Detective and of course as a psychic medium how to cope with loss, overcome grief and embrace spiritual reunion.
Very simple words with a very simple description but to actually feel what that means represents a huge ball of trauma and heart break that no one can ever understand apart from when you personally go through it.
My driving force in this life has always been to bring comfort to the bereaved and proof of their loved one’s survival. That has been the main work I have worked towards for 26 years. But to now have the chance to help you through the initial loss to being ready and positive enough to embark on a spiritual relationship with your loved one is a gift beyond anything I can imagine.
I have been reading so many stories that you have all kindly sent in about your experiences with losing loved ones whether they are friends, family or pets. Thank you for this by the way as I am sure the writing may have either invoked true sadness or I hope, happiness on remembering their life.
I have cried so many times over the last few days! The stories are breath taking, one for how brave you have been for enduring the pain and sadness, but also how amazingly your loved ones have manipulated situations and events to let you know that they are there.
Some of the young children and baby stories are so fantastic that I am literally champing at the bit to get this book submitted.
It is going to be one of my most proudest achievements and I cannot wait to tell those who have been involved that their loved ones have been immortalised. It will be a dream come true.
Nothing can possibly totally heal the rift that you experience during loss. Of course it doesn’t have to be someone passing on. It can be an estrangement, loss of health, divorce, coping with terminal illness and anything where you have been faced with the harsh reality that nothing is ever going to be the same again. But it really is OK not to be OK.
Baby steps and honouring the grieving process is always monitored and gently pushed along by your loved ones and the angel realms. You may feel so alone, but just by talking out or thinking out a conversation with your loved one or to an angel really does help, trust me. Just try it.
Take five minutes in a quiet or relaxing space. Take a few deep breaths and think about nothing but the breaths that you are taking. When your mind empties start to think of your loved one or the problem that ails you. Get everything out in those thoughts that is bringing you pain.
After you have highlighted what you need help with thank the source for taking on your pain and ask them to help you. Archangel Michael would be a fab one for this as he helps us move in with strength and focus and helps us to cut the binds of our grief.
Remember if you are asking the angels, they will need your permission to get involved as they cannot interfere with free will.
In the next couple of days after you have sent you SOS out, you will surely get a sign.
The common ones are fluffy white feathers in unusual places, butterflies, dragonflies, birds acting unnaturally or even a favourite song on the radio from your loved one. They will pick the right sign to show you that they have heard your plea.
This is only a little tip, but by regularly doing this, you are intentionally connecting to the Universe and asking for help. The more that you do it, the higher your vibration rises which makes it easier for ethereal and celestial energy to blend with you and help.
I know that you hate the world, are angry with your situation and find it hard to keep going, but trust me, when you have a strong, silent invisible force standing right behind you, supporting you and nurturing you back to some normality, grieving and the fight to recover is a whole lot easier.
There are so many tips, exercises and inspiring stories in my book, but I just wanted to reach out and say that you may be suffering, but you are not alone.
I would also ask that during your day at some point when you have a quiet minute please send a heart in your minds eye to a. your loved one who you miss and b. another heart to all those that are suffering with these dreadful weather disasters at the moment. Mother Nature isn’t happy with us and the way we treat the Earth, so these disasters will continue at an alarming level, I’m afraid.
Just a little thought from masses of people with the same message will reach the souls that are in distress on the Earth and the ones that have tragically been taken home.
We can do nothing but spread the love x
I would also love at this time to lay tribute to a magnificent icon of spiritual living and human learning, Louise Hay.
She has recently transitioned and gone back home leaving a legacy of truly inspiring writing and Hay House, the ultimate publishing machine that distributes to the world every thing we could possibly wish to learn and be inspired by.
I can honestly say that without You Can Heal Your Life, (my bible for spiritual living!) by Louise Hay, I would never have moved forward as quickly in recovering from my grief and tragedy.
May the angels embrace your beautiful soul Louise, God Bless xx
Until next time,